EVERY DAY IS LOVE DAY

2 days ago was Valentines Day – the official day to honour and celebrate love and partnership, the passionate romantic love that we love and hate and yet love. But also the universal love that connects us to every soul and being on the planet. The love that is mirrored in every genuine encounter, proving that we are all the same, that we are one.

I am very glad that someone made room for such an important day in our calendars! No matter how much this event has become a mandatory comercialized day of consumption – for those people who rarely celebrate themselves nor their relationships, it is an essential day to practise gratitude and remind themselves on why they made a commitment to their partner.

I see Valentines Day as a special day to honour my very own heart. The organ that keeps my body alive, that receives and shares love with others and myself. It is a day to honour and celebrate this incredibly powerful wonder we call love. Love is a revolution. Love is a frequency, an energy with infinite capacity to grow. Love is a language that speaks in many ways and shows who we truly are. Love needs to be our driving force for everything we do. Love speaks in actions. Actions towards others as well as to ourselves. Every moment reveals an opportunity to share love and to demonstrate love out loud. Take it and live it! Thus, for me, love day is every day!

Two days before my last birthday I got myself a beautiful ring that I found in a small boutique in Paris. A golden ring shaped in the letters ’love’. The moment I saw it, I knew it is mine and that I would make myself the gift of promising to never let myself down again, to never harm or judge myself, never regret anything and kindly caring for myself. That was the day I decided to marry myself.

So on my birthday night, I lit some candles, took a long bath and cuddled up in bed to write my vows. I created a little ceremony, read my vows out loud, honoured my heart and promised it a life-long commitment to celebrate, enjoy, love myself and to be my very best friend and care-taker. That promise that I made to myself, I memorize every morning when I get out of bed. I am thankful for the gift of life, for another beautiful day and for my wonderful heart and the ability to love.

No matter if having a partner or not, I will keep honouring this special bond, as my heart is the most loyal partner I will ever have in life. So I should be loyal too and be grateful and caring, otherwise it may leave me one day.

Below is my favourite heart-honouring song to go with this message. It actually sounds like a sweet prayer or vow to me. A sweet caressing message to my heart…

Now, what’s your heart’s sonorous chords? Go play your sacred songs, celebrate them with a dance, look into your eyes, say “I love you“, be grateful for your entire being, for this created perfection, shed a tear, honour and celebrate yourself – every day! Cause there is no one more important than you! By being able to open your heart to yourself, you will be able to open it to others. Not only to love the beauty of another, but also the imperfection, the humanity, the struggle and the pain. This is all part of the creation, part of our paths. Everyone has a different path, a different pace, a different aim. So be more compassionate, empathetic and kind to everyone. We are all in this together and should support us with kindness and love. Therefore I say: EVERY DAY IS LOVE DAY!

 

 

OUR SONG – THE XX
ALL I HAVE, I WILL GIVE TO YOU
IN DARK TIMES, WHEN NO ONE WANTS TO
I WILL GIVE, YOU ME
AND WE’LL BE
US
ALL I HAVE, I WILL GIVE TO YOU
AND IN TIMES, WHEN NO ONE WANTS TO
I WILL GIVE, YOU ME
AND WE’LL BE
US
AND THERE’S NO ONE ELSE
THAT KNOWS ME
LIKE YOU DO
ALL I’VE DONE
YOU’VE DONE TOO
THE WALLS I
HIDE BEHIND
YOU WALK THROUGH
YOU JUST WALK THROUGH
WELL I KNOW ALL THE WORDS
TO TAKE YOU APART
YOU KNOW I KNOW YOUR HURT
I WANT TO MEND YOUR HEART
YOU BROKE DOWN
WHY DONT YOU TELL ME FROM THE START
YOU KNOW I KNOW YOUR HURT
I WANT TO MEND YOUR HEART
AND THERE’S NO ONE ELSE
THAT KNOWS ME
LIKE YOU DO
WHAT I’VE DONE
YOU’VE DONE TOO
THE WALLS I
HIDE BEHIND
YOU WALK THROUGH
YOU JUST WALK THROUGH

 

Merken

Merken

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